At some point, it could be that he decides he likes his number one girl enough to cut contact with everyone else. He found his Miss Right and it wasn’t you. Love, in a romantic sense anyway, is conditional.

If we think that you’re pushing too hard for a commitment, we might ghost you as a way to get out of it. The problem is that it’s not always easy to tell if he’s seeing someone else or just keeping his options open. Perhaps he was living his life, minding his own business and then he suddenly felt the urge to be validated. A man who can’t get his needs met, will often find a way to be around you to feel validated. I know many women who are afraid to ask big questions or to say how they are feeling to a man. At this point, it’s always a good idea to stay calm and grounded.

He Doesn’t Reply To Your Texts For Days

If he keeps pushing then cut off all contacts with him. You must not feel any responsibility to cater to his needs when he’s left you before. MoreThanOne is down Especially when he has no good reason for it. After you listened to his side of the story, now it’s time to let him know yours.

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Please know that this is not about trying to distracting yourself from some guy. It’s about you focusing on your joy (3) and investing in your life. Use this time as as an opportunity to focus on you, and invest in your life and your future. Having time to invest in yourself and your life on your terms, is actually an amazing thing.

Although it sucks, I realize that I don’t deserve this and he’s just not the guy for me. With time, I’ll meet a great guy and be thankful it didn’t work out with this Houdini. I met this guy online and went out with him for almost 3 months. I was excited that for the first time ever I met a truly decent guy (someone respectful of me). At the end he said he was busy to meet up and not looking for commitment.

Just to see who bites and what kind of attention he can get. Don’t cut off your nose to spite your face. When a guy comes back after a week, just act like nothing happened at all. Furthermore, there were women that inspired me to want to commit, and other women who were cute enough for a fling but not girlfriend material in my mind. Relationship-oriented men and player men.

You couldn’t manage to make them feel like a hero

Then i decided that there was no point me wasting my time thinking of a guy who was not obviously interested in me. So i stopped thinking of him and concentrated on sorting out my mortgage and looking for a flat. I decided to give in, texted him to say hi, how are you. He responded a day later and said he was good and had a rough week.

It takes 2 seconds to respond someone and he didn’t do that for you. Chalk it up to one good date and keep fishing. The way you you describe him vanishing and your reaction sounds like the way you communicate with someone you barely know. 3 Months is a lot of time and there should be at least a modicum of trust and comfort built up by then. I was just separated and coming from a hard marriage. I wasn’t sure that we would ever meet at some point.

Maybe he has disappeared because he isn’t over his ex yet and you were just a rebound. A guy who is still waiting for his ex to come back will never say he’s ready for a relationship or date someone else exclusively. Guys disappear and then return because it’s a possibility that they went back to the ex but the ex didn’t give him another chance. When guys disappear and come back, it’s usually because they like you and don’t want to miss out on you. But their commitment phobia is getting in the way of developing a relationship with you.

I sit on my couch and wait for messages to arrive in their inbox. I received a callback three days later. I apologised profusely, he didn’t reply and I thought that was the end of my relationship with Dev. It’s no secret that the dating scene today is a battlefield. There comes a defining moment in every woman’s life when she is standing between two parallel universes, and the outcome of her life depends on the path she does or doesn’t take.

Lol Now usually when I give him a dose of his own medicine, he eventually comes sniffing around wondering why and wants to know how I could possibly be living without his presence. By the time he does come back around the tables have been turned because now I’m not as interested as I once was because you treated me like an option. Mmm, I say no, because I don’t play around with feelings because I don’t like to be played with.